[James]

I've never written to you before, but I really need your advice. I have
suspected for some time now that my wife has been cheating on me. The
usual signs are phone rings but if I answer, the caller hangs up.

My wife has been going out with "the girls" a lot recently although when
I ask their names she always says, "Just some friends from work, you
don't know them."

I always try to stay awake to look out for her coming home, but I
usually fall asleep. Anyway, I have never approached the subject with my
wife. I think deep down I just didn't want to know the truth, but last
night she went out again and curiosity got the better of me, so I
decided to check on her. Around midnight, I hid in the garage behind my
golf clubs so I could get a good view when she arrived home from a night
out with "the girls".

When she got out of the car she was buttoning up her blouse, which was
open, and she took her panties out of her purse and slipped them on. It
was at that moment, crouching behind my clubs, that I noticed that the
graphite shaft on my driver appeared to have a hairline crack right by
the club head.

Is this something I can fix myself or should I take it back to the pro
shop where I bought it?